Talk about it Share how you both really feel about the situation, and how you want to approach it.Communication plays a key role in relationships, and when it comes to the matter of sex, this is especially true.So, you just started seeing an amazing guy: he’s sensitive, he’s smart, he’s super cute. Then, without warning, he drops an unexpected bomb—your new boyfriend is completely clueless in the sack (read: he’s a virgin).Before you totally freak out, here is what you need to know about dating a dude who‘s still carrying his V-card.Don’t judge The last thing you should do is pass judgment on the guy.Yes, we’ve all grown up thinking that every greasy, teenage male’s goal is to bed a decided number of babes before college, but that generalization isn’t true for everyone (sorry American Pie).Don’t look at dating an inexperienced guy as a bad thing—think about it, is it honestly better to be with someone who’s racked up a gag-worthy number of one-night-stands? You should respect your man and the fact that it’s most likely a sensitive subject for him.He’s proven that he trusts you enough to tell you that he’s a virgin, so don’t make him regret it.
) but from where I'm sitting, looks like a train-wreck wrapped in a disaster surrounded by a catastrophe. You find out their fucked up beliefs, and reframe them with more mature beliefs...first date went well, drove her back, fumbling in my car (like i was seventeen again lol) and she said she really wanted to go out with me, so i was like aight cool. ehh went for a coffee then movie and i thought we'd do some shit in the dark (again like i was a teenager ahaha) but she was kinda stiff.she loosened up on the way home and i had my arm around her, joking and laughing and stuff.It may be that, as the Carell character says, “It just hasn’t happened yet” for you.Or you may have made a conscious decision not to sleep with someone until you’re married, or until you’ve met just the right person.